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050 00 $aBF723.D3$bS33 2001
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100 1 $aSchaefer, Dan.
245 10 $aHow do we tell the children? :$ba step-by-step guide for helping children two to teen cope when someone dies /$cDan Schaefer and Christine Lyons.
250 $a3rd ed.
260 $aNew York :$bNewmarket Press,$cc2001.
300 $axvii, 203 p. ;$c22 cm.
336 $atext$btxt$2rdacontent
337 $aunmediated$bn$2rdamedia
338 $avolume$bnc$2rdacarrier
490 1 $aA Newmarket parenting guide
504 $aIncludes bibliographical references (p. 187-196) and index.
505 0 $aIntroduction: The Solitary Mourner -- What Children Think About Death -- Two to Six Years -- Six to Nine Years -- Nine to Twelve Years -- Teenagers -- Explaining Death to Children -- Death of a Grandparent -- Death of an Immediate Family Member (Mother, Father, Sibling) -- Infant Death -- Death of a Friend or Classmate -- Accidental Death -- Murder -- Suicide -- Aids -- How to Talk to Children About Someone Who is Dying -- How to Talk to a Mentally Retarded Child -- Death of a Pet -- Grief and Healing -- Common Reactions to Grief -- The Special Needs of Children -- The Grieving Process -- Problems to be Prepared for at Various Ages -- Dealing with Anger, Guilt, and Responsibility -- Helping Your Child to Heal -- Expectations for the Grieving Child and the Best Ways to Respond -- Traumatic Stress -- One Personal Experience of Trauma by Dr. Lisa Hudson -- Schools and Trauma -- The Funeral--Finding a Way to Say Good-bye -- Telling Children what to Expect -- A Good-Bye Gift -- Questions Your Child Might Ask -- "Life Goes On" / Pat Travis Rosenberg.
520 $aNow in its third edition, this updated classic guide has been expanded to feature new material to help adults as well as children cope with the impact of traumatic events. Dr. Schaefer's advice is not only for parents but anyone in a caregiving role, including older siblings, grandparents, extended family members, and friends. The revised quick-reference "Crisis Checklist" responds to children's frequently asked questions with helpful scripted answers. Dr. Schaefer, working with child psychologists and trauma experts, and drawing on more than three decades of experience with families in crisis, has put together a practical guide for anyone who works or lives with children -- parents, care-givers, counselors, or teachers -- for dealing with children's inevitable questions about loss and change, life and death. He provides adults with strategies to assist children with grief and trauma and offers time-tested advice and language that children can understand. The book includes sections on what children think about death; explaining death to children; fear, confusion, and sadness; grief and healing; the funeral and saying good-bye; talking about AIDS; communicating with mentally ill children; and a personal story of parenting through trauma.
650 0 $aChildren and death.
650 0 $aDeath$xPsychological aspects.
650 0 $aBereavement$xPsychological aspects.
650 0 $aParent and child.
650 0 $aChildren$xCounseling of.
650 0 $aTeenagers$xCounseling of.
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650 7 $aParent and child.$2fast$0(OCoLC)fst01053308
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700 1 $aLyons, Christine.
776 08 $iOnline version:$aSchaefer, Dan.$tHow do we tell the children?$b3rd ed.$dNew York : Newmarket Press, ℗♭2001$w(OCoLC)609314496
830 0 $aNewmarket parenting guide.
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