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001 ocm41645478
003 OCoLC
005 20160204075348.0
008 990702s1999 nyu 001 0 eng d
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020 $a0060930292
020 $a9780060930295
035 $a(OCoLC)41645478
050 4 $aBF561$b.W48 1999
082 04 $a152.4$221
100 1 $aWetzler, Scott,$d1955-
245 10 $aIs it you or is it me? :$bwhy couples play the blame game /$cScott Wetzler with Diane Cole.
250 $a1st HarperPerennial ed.
260 $aNew York :$bHarperPerennial,$c1999.
300 $axvii, 252 pages ;$c21 cm
336 $atext$btxt$2rdacontent
337 $aunmediated$bn$2rdamedia
338 $avolume$bnc$2rdacarrier
500 $aIncludes index.
505 0 $aIntroduction: is it you or is it me? Why we blame each other -- How did we get so confused? The psychological dynamic that turns our emotions inside out -- The land of he said/she said: are we struggling with our partners or ourselves? -- Confronting anger: getting from mutual rage to mutual respect -- When happily ever after isn't: blaming each other for our own disappointments -- The dance of mutual dependency: why we fight it, and why we shouldn't -- Confusing love with emasculation: the fragile male ego -- Raw and vulnerable: women's fear of intimacy -- Exposing ourselves: splitting off sex from emotion -- Whose side are you on? When we compete instead of partner -- Separation pains: moving beyond the scorched-earth divorce -- Reconciling the past: healing ourselves, forgiving others -- Going forward: insight, mastery, tolerance.
520 $aExplores the widespread phenomenon of misplaced anger that characterizes so many relationships in the 1990s, resulting from an increased intolerance to the feelings aroused by intimacy.
650 0 $aEmotions.
650 0 $aBlame.
650 0 $aMan-woman relationships.
650 7 $aBlame.$2fast$0(OCoLC)fst00834112
650 7 $aEmotions.$2fast$0(OCoLC)fst00908819
650 7 $aMan-woman relationships.$2fast$0(OCoLC)fst01007080
700 1 $aCole, Diane.
938 $aBrodart$bBROD$n53201760$c$12.95
938 $aBaker and Taylor$bBTCP$nbl 99009208
938 $aYBP Library Services$bYANK$n1561955
994 $aZ0$bPMR
948 $hNO HOLDINGS IN PMR - 24 OTHER HOLDINGS