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050 00 $aHV6626.52$b.O37 1994
060 4 $aHV 6626.52$bO41s 1994
082 00 $a362.7/6$220
049 $aMAIN
100 1 $aOksana, Chrystine.
245 10 $aSafe passage to healing :$ba guide for survivors of ritual abuse /$cChrystine Oksana.
250 $a1st ed.
260 $aNew York :$bHarperPerennial,$c©1994.
300 $axxviii, 388 pages :$billustrations ;$c24 cm
336 $atext$btxt$2rdacontent
337 $aunmediated$bn$2rdamedia
338 $avolume$bnc$2rdacarrier
504 $aIncludes bibliographical references (pages 351-363) and index.
505 0 $aI. Introduction -- Background -- Who can benefit -- Cultivating safety -- Honoring your feelings -- Respecting your needs -- About the survivors -- II. My story -- I had a normal childhood -- It must be stress -- Sub Ictal Phenomenon -- Please don't hurt me anymore -- I want to try that -- I want to know who molested me -- Looking for proof -- I've got it! -- Do you believe me? -- Validation -- I believe you -- Acceptance -- The breakthrough -- The connection -- The beginning -- III. Ritual abuse in perspective -- Pursuit of power -- Violence -- Evidence -- Ritual abuse -- The quest for healing -- Reclaiming our inheritance -- Part One: Preparing for the journey -- 1. Going forth empowered -- Inner wisdom -- Reconnecting with inner wisdom -- Recognizing your strengths -- Affirming and using your strengths -- External support -- safe friends -- If you need a support network -- A message for support friends -- 2. A course in safe passage -- Establishing safety -- Creating a safe place in your home -- Establishing inner safety -- Safe thoughts -- Your safe page(s) -- rainbow place -- Basics of safe passage -- Understanding how your body/mind communicate -- Quick reference in an emergency -- Your best crisis prevention -- nurturing yourself -- 3. Overview of recovery -- Snapshot of recovery -- Search for the child -- The formula -- Cycles of recovery -- Stages of recovery -- How long before I'm healed? -- What recovery means.
505 0 $aPart Two: About ritual abuse -- 4. Cults and ritual abuse -- Definition of ritual abuse -- Subverting the power of ritual -- The addictive nature of ritual abuse -- Traditional ritual abuse -- Variations of ritual abuse -- Documented cases -- Who practices ritual abuse? -- Characteristics of cult violators -- Ritual abuse, cults, and organized rime -- Cults and secret societies -- where are they found? -- How cults escape detection -- Successful prosecutions of ritual abuse cases -- The nature of traumatic memory -- WHy are survivors remembering now? -- 5. Programming and indoctrination -- Dissociation: How it works -- Programming: How it works -- The aftereffects -- Recognizing cues -- Indoctrination -- Prognosis -- How trauma may interfere with healing -- Breaking free -- 6. Cult conditioning -- Historical framework -- Conditioning -- Real or staged? -- No way out -- Critically timed manipulations -- 7. Destructive family systems -- Characteristics of destructive families -- Rigid to chaotic -- Emotionally debilitated.
505 0 $aPart Three: Dissociation -- 8. Surviving through dissociation -- Common dissociation -- Clinical (amnesic) dissociation -- The realm of possibilities -- Clinical diagnosis -- Avoiding misdiagnosis -- 9. Recognizing the aftereffects -- COuld it really have happened to me? -- How to read the signs -- Possible signs of enabling dissociation -- Possible signs of dissociative experience -- Possible signs of dissociative identity -- Possible signs of ritual abuse -- Healing is possible -- 10. Finding lost parts -- Lost and found -- What you can expect -- Understanding lost selves -- Recognizing lost parts -- identifying lost selves or parts -- The logic of dissociated parts -- Organization of inner parts -- naming the dissociated parts -- how alters feel -- Process of discovery -- Getting acquainted -- Healing each part -- Working with protector parts -- Working with maintainer parts -- The story of two kings -- 11. Creating a healing environment -- Facilitator(s) -- Recovery meetings -- Safety rules -- Cooperating to recover -- A reunion of lost parts.
505 0 $aPart Four: Association: The cornerstone of recovery -- 12. The process -- The basic principle of recovery -- The body/mind instinct to heal -- Association -- How recovery feels -- 13. Personal safety -- Determining the source -- Factors affecting present-day safety -- Steps to take -- General safety tips -- 14. In the shelter of denial -- Hurdles to overcome -- Therapeutic versus historical truth -- Recognizing patterns -- 15. Associating the experience -- The importance of association -- Difference between memory recall and association -- Memory association -- The process -- Managing association -- Preparing for recovery -- Protecting the inner child -- Beginning association -- BASK integration -- How much is enough? -- Avoiding association -- Do's and don'ts -- Keep all the pieces -- Go with it all the way -- What to do after the memory -- 16. Getting through the toughest moments -- Recognizing the telltale signs -- Rejecting suicide -- Accepting unbearable realizations -- Overcoming self-injury impulses -- Moving through despair, depression, hopelessness -- 17. Associating the beliefs (behaviors) -- The importance of connecting -- Framework for associating and changing beliefs -- Beliefs to examine -- About power -- The key is self-esteem -- Finding your self -- Exercises to help associate and change beliefs -- 18. Associating the body (physical sensations/feelings) -- Preparing to associate feelings -- Body communications and memories -- managing feelings -- As feelings surface -- It's okay to feel good -- 19. Associating the emotions -- Roadblocks -- Associating emotions -- Balancing past and present -- Overcoming fear -- Breaking through shame -- Claiming anger -- Accepting the grief.
505 0 $aPart Five: Healing -- 20. Healing relationships -- Significant relationships -- Maximizing healthy behaviors -- Parenting -- Ongoing relations with the family of origin -- 21. Healing sexuality -- Influences -- Aftereffects -- Healing -- 22. Healing spirituality -- Examining supernatural phenomena -- The role of religion -- Finding spirituality.
505 0 $aPart Six: Resources for healing -- 23 Finding the right therapist -- The right therapist -- Avenues for your search -- Feeling safe while you search -- Conducting your search -- Questions to ask -- Evaluating the interview -- Getting past the roadblocks -- Evaluating therapy -- Identifying problems early on -- Handling problems -- Messages for therapists -- A final thought -- 24. Peer support -- Types of groups -- Formats that work -- Choosing a group -- Deciding to join -- Issues to monitor -- Safety -- If you want to start a group -- 25. Self-discovery tools -- Maximizing effectiveness -- Choosing the right tools -- Creative avenues -- Body avenues -- Inner child avenues -- Guided avenues -- Problematic tools -- 26. Specialized treatment options -- Inpatient treatment programs -- Nonresidential treatment programs -- Choosing the right program -- Maximizing success of treatment -- 27. Hopes and dreams -- Today is a good day -- Recovery, hopes, and dreams -- Be strong in your truth.
590 $bArchive
650 0 $aRitual abuse$zUnited States.
650 0 $aRitual abuse victims$xCounseling of$zUnited States.
650 6 $aViolence rituelle$zÉtats-Unis.
650 6 $aVictimes de violence rituelle$xCounseling$zÉtats-Unis.
650 7 $aRitual abuse.$2fast$0(OCoLC)fst01098249
650 7 $aRitual abuse victims$xCounseling of.$2fast$0(OCoLC)fst01098252
651 7 $aUnited States.$2fast$0(OCoLC)fst01204155
650 2 $aViolence.
650 2 $aCrime Victims.
650 2 $aCounseling.
651 2 $aUnited States.
776 08 $iOnline version:$aOksana, Chrystine.$tSafe passage to healing.$b1st ed.$dNew York : HarperPerennial, ©1994$w(OCoLC)652363274
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