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LEADER: 01749nam a22002778a 4500
001 2009047889
003 DLC
005 20091117144212.0
008 091116s2010 oru b 000 0 eng
010 $a 2009047889
020 $a9780736926744 (pbk.)
040 $aDLC$cDLC
050 00 $aBT707.7$b.B68 2010
082 00 $a248.8/45$222
100 1 $aBottke, Allison.
245 10 $aSetting boundaries with your aging parents /$cAllison Bottke.
260 $aEugene, Or. :$bHarvest House Publishers,$cc2010.
263 $a1004
300 $ap. cm.
504 $aIncludes bibliographical references.
505 0 $aWhy I'm writing this book -- Finding the balance between burnout and respect -- The road to burnout -- Stop the insanity! -- It's all about change and choice -- "But I'm only trying to help" -- The motivation behind the madness -- Pain from the past -- Toxic elders - destructive choices -- The power of love and forgiveness -- R.e.s.p.e.c.t -- When your parent becomes dependent -- The sibling situation -- Financial fallout -- The six steps to sanity: how to set healthy boundaries -- Stop your own negative behavior -- Assemble a support group -- Nip excuses in the bud -- Implement rules and boundaries -- Trust your instincts -- Yield everything to God -- The dawn of a new beginning -- Put it in writing -- Stress triggers -- Expectations -- Consequences -- Sowing and reaping -- A message from Allison -- Sample letters/scripts.
650 0 $aFamilies$xReligious aspects$xChristianity.
650 0 $aParent and adult child$xReligious aspects$xChristianity.
650 0 $aAdult children$xFamily relationships.
650 0 $aIntergenerational relations$xReligious aspects$xChristianity.
650 0 $aAging$xReligious aspects$xChristianity.