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008 990429s1999 nyu 000 0 eng
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050 00 $aBF575.L8$bC24 1999
100 1 $aCarlson, Richard,$d1961-2006
245 10 $aDon't sweat the small stuff in love :$bsimple ways to nurture and strengthen your relationships while avoiding the habits that break down your loving connection /$cRichard Carlson and Kristine Carlson.
246 3 $aDo not sweat the small stuff in love
250 $a1st ed.
260 $aNew York :$bHyperion,$cc1999.
300 $a269 p. ;$c18 cm.
505 0 $aMostly, Be Pals -- Learn to Laugh at Yourself -- Let It Go Already -- Turn Up the Heat -- Consider That the Grass Probably Isn't Greener -- Throw Away Your Scorecard -- Be Kind First (Kris) -- Don't Use Your Partner as a Punching Bag! -- Ask the Question, "Whose Quirk Is This, Anyway?" (Kris) -- Talk to Him His Way -- Avoid the Words, "I Love You, BUT" -- Fill Your Life with Opportunities to Express Love -- Look for the Gifts -- Mark Your Calendar (Kris) -- Share an Insight -- Stay Away from Ultimatums -- Allow Time for Transitions -- Don't Fight Unless the Mood Is Right -- Know Your Own Value -- Put a Positive Spin on It -- Remember That Your Partner Can't Read Your Mind -- Set a Good Example (Kris) -- Don't Fight over Stupid Things -- Become a World-Class Listener -- Experience a Sudden Shift -- Avoid the "I've Had a Really Hard Day" Habit -- Let Him Buy His Lunch -- Surprise Her with Compliments -- Stop Wishing She (or He) Were Different -- Don't Put Your Partner On the Spot -- Think Before You Speak -- Discover What Part You Are Playing -- Finish the Job -- Think Gentle Thoughts -- Stay Compassionate -- Jump-Start Your Relationship -- Don't Allow Passing Thoughts to Turn into Issues -- Become a Low-Maintenance Partner -- Do It Your Way -- Walke Up and Think about Three Things You Love about Her -- Choose Peace over Irritation -- Don't Sweat the Occasional Criticism -- Stay Playful -- Stop Rehearsing Unhappiness -- Don't Be the Hero of Every Story -- Make the Fresh-Start Commitment -- Avoid Correcting Each Other -- Sit in Silence -- Take Responsibility for Your Own Happiness -- Master the ARt of the Heart-to-Heart -- Don't Confuse Your Own Frustration with a Problem in the Relationship -- Stop Being So Defensive -- Be Consistently Grateful -- Don't Fall into the "I've Got Time for Everyone but You" Trap -- Organize a Charitable Project Together -- Ask Yourself the Question, "In the Scheme of Things, Is This Really That Big a Deal?" -- Don't Continue Doing the Same Things and Expect a Different Result -- Respond with Love -- Look in the Mirror -- Allow Your Partner to Be Human -- Make Peace with Change -- Don't Overanalyze the Flaws -- Choose to Be Supportive (Kris) -- Jump Ahead and Look Back -- Remember the Equation: A Happy Person Equals a Happy Partner -- Ask for "Dream Updates" -- Never Underestimate the Power of Love -- Don't Let Your Children Come between You -- Learn to Deflect Occasional Uncalled-for Comments -- Don't Come Home Frazzled -- Ask Your Partner the Question, "What's the Most Difficult Part of Being in a Relationship with Me?" -- Don't Question Her (or His) Motives -- Graciously Receive Compliments -- Let Go of Your Top Three Pet Peeves -- Avoid Absolute Statements (of a Negative Nature) -- Predict the Predictable -- Stop Treating Everything Like an Emergency -- Use Letters as a Communication Tool -- Don't Make Your Partner Walk on Eggshells -- Make a Plan to Become More Loving -- Gracefully Accept Apologies -- Reflect, for a Moment, on All You Don't Do -- Practice Regular Stress Prevention -- Don't Speak for Your Spouse (or Boyfriend, Girlfriend, Fiancee, or Anyone Else)! -- Conspire to Inspire -- Cast Away Jealousy (Kris) -- Allow Your Partner a Few Eccentricities -- Stop Being So Demanding -- When in Doubt, Pause -- Practice Unconditional Love -- Go Ahead and Do It -- Say the Words, "I'm Sorry" -- Stay Away from Comparisons -- Learn from a Teen -- Step Aside from Stubbornness -- Raise Your Standard of Living -- Allow Your Partner the Space to "Lose it" Every Once in a While -- Balance the Act (Kris) -- Remember the Magic -- Treasure Each Other.
650 0 $aLove.
650 0 $aMan-woman relationships.
700 1 $aCarlson, Kristine,$d1963-
948 $a03/10/2000$b03/20/2000
999 $aBF 575 L8 C24 1999$wLC$c1$i31786101167044$d7/12/2012$e6/10/2012$f2/5/2004$g1$lCIRCSTACKS$mNULS$n5$q1$rY$sY$tBOOK$u6/11/2003