An edition of A slap in the face (2013)

A slap in the face

how to live in a world of snubs, put-downs, and insults

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An edition of A slap in the face (2013)

A slap in the face

how to live in a world of snubs, put-downs, and insults

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William Irvine undertakes a wide-ranging investigation of insults, their history, the role they play in social relationships, and the science behind them, examining not just memorable zingers, such as Elizabeth Bowen's description of Aldous Huxley as "The stupid person's idea of a clever person," but subtle insults as well, such as when someone insults us by reporting the insulting things others have said about us: "I never read bad reviews about myself," wrote entertainer Oscar Levant, "because my best friends invariably tell me about them." Irvine also considers the role insults play in our society: they can be used to cement relations, as when a woman playfully teases her husband, or to enforce a social hierarchy, as when a boss publicly berates an employee. He goes on to investigate the many ways society has tried to deal with insults-by adopting codes of politeness, for example, and outlawing hate speech-but concludes that the best way to deal with insults is to immunize ourselves against them: We need to transform ourselves in the manner recommended by Stoic philosophers. We should, more precisely, become insult pacifists, trying hard not to insult others and laughing off their attempts to insult us.

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Language
English
Pages
253

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Table of Contents

Insult arsenal
Words like daggers
Subtle digs
Bludgeoned with praise
Benign insults
Insult psychology
World of hurt
Who gets hurt?
Why we insult
Dealing with insults
Personal responses to insults
Societal responses to insults
Insults, the inner game
Insights.

Edition Notes

Includes bibliographical references.

Published in
New York

Classifications

Dewey Decimal Class
155.2/32
Library of Congress
BF698.35.R47 I78 2013, BF698.35.R4778 2013, BF698.35.R47I78 2013

The Physical Object

Pagination
p. cm.
Number of pages
253

Edition Identifiers

Open Library
OL25372018M
ISBN 13
9780199934454, 9780199934461
LCCN
2012021464
OCLC/WorldCat
798809728

Work Identifiers

Work ID
OL16699769W

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