“How do you do it, Pheebs? How do you stay so sure of yourself?” Phoebe’s eyes softened. “It’s not always easy, you know. But if I don’t love me, how can someone else? If I tear myself down, why shouldn’t someone else? It sometimes takes some reminding, you know. But in the end... I treat myself the way I want others to treat me. With acceptance and love and a bit of a sense of humor.”